Anal sex is a hot topic nowadays. The practice is as old as humanity itself and yet much stigma is attached to it. In fact, it is a perfectly natural form of sex, as people since the ancient Greeks have known. Here at Barcelona Escorts, we thought it was about time to tackle the topic, provide useful tips, and explain to our readers and illustrious clients some of the advantages and risks involved.
Why do it? The anus, especially its opening, is full of nerve endings that can be stimulated to give amazing sensations. As it is very tight, the feeling of being penetrated in your rectal area is unique. Many women describe it as a very erotic feeling of fullness. According to recent research, 40 percent of women between the ages of 20-24 had tried anal sex. Moreover, a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that no less than 94 percent! of women who received some sort of anal stimulation during sex had an orgasm.
Some physiognomy. The anus is surrounded by two sets of muscles that open and close two sphincters: an external one and an internal one. The external sphincter is easy to access and fairly easy to clench shut or relax. The internal sphincter is located about 2-3 cms. farther inside. You can train yourself to increase control over the anal sphincter, and thus improve the experience of anal sex, by doing kegel exercises.
Is it dirty? This is perhaps the greatest misconception about anal sex. In fact, the anus and the lower rectum actually contain very little faecal material. Although not strictly necessary, many women, nonetheless, prefer to have an enema first. Doing this beforehand means they are more likely to relax and enjoy the experience without being concerned about any faecal matter emerging. Both disposable and reusable enema kits can be easily purchased nowadays.
Ensuring hygiene. As they are two different environments, even microscopic faecal elements can lead to vaginal infections. Thus, men must be sure to clean themselves thoroughly and, if you are using condoms, put on a new one before having vaginal intercourse. What is more, if sex toys are used, make sure to clean them well in order to avoid passing bacteria. Most STIs such as chlamydia, gonorrhoea, infectious hepatitis and HIV can be contracted via the anus/rectum. Because the lining of the anus is much thinner than the vagina’s, it can be ruptured more easily (see notes about the importance of using lube further on).
Communication. Beforehand. If anal sex is something you want to explore with your partner, start by asking some questions. Have they done it? Did they like it? Does the idea appeal to them? Then take it from there. During. It is up to the woman to pay close attention to what she is feeling, and let her partner know at all times. If it is at all uncomfortable or painful, let him know immediately. Similarly, the man should be supportive by asking how his partner feels (and whispering sexy things to encourage her). Anal sex can be an intense experience, especially the first time, so men should remember to be especially loving and supportive (lots of kisses, cuddles, etc. when it is over).
Lubrication. The two most important factors in choosing a lube for anal sex are viscosity and composition. Thicker lubes are best for anal sex because the walls of the anus require a lube that can keep them well-oiled, thus reducing the chances of cuts and tears inside the rectum. A silicone-based lube is best for anal sex because it’s safe to use with condoms (unlike oil-based lubes), does not evaporate quickly (unlike water-based lubes), and has the most slippery feel to it. There are even special lubricants for anal sex that contain benzocaine to desensitize the anus, relieve pain and facilitate penetration. Don’t forget to reapply lubricant at any time during the act – taking plenty of breaks to apply more lube both inside and around your anal opening as well as on whichever sex toy you are using.
Positions.
For the man, it may be a good idea to get behind your partner and let them be in charge of the situation by backing into your penis in their own time. The woman will probably need a moment or two to get used to the feeling and may ask her lover to stay completely still. Try out positions that give the woman as much control as possible e.g. sitting on her partner’s lap. Many experts recommend women lie on their side (spooning posture). Obviously, doggy style is popular because it is the easiest one for inserting a penis. However, the drawback is that the man cannot see his lover’s face, so they are unable to see how she reacts. That means she has no control over the speed and depth of penetration. Trust is vital. You have to be relaxed so that your muscles do not get tense, which is what causes pain. Go slowly and carefully until you feel totally comfortable. The walls of the vagina and the anus share many nerve endings, so stimulating the vagina simultaneously can be extremely pleasurable. Try inserting a finger or a vibrator into the woman’s vagina during anal sex.
So, if you are curious (and let’s face it, most of us are!) and you are planning to visit Barcelona sometime soon, take a close look at Barcelonaescorts website. Though some of the stunning escorts do not go in for anal sex, scroll through the different profiles and you will see that some of these highly experienced young ladies do. After that, just give a call to the agency’s director and arrange a date.
